The Resource Love and war in intimate relationships : connection, disconnection, and mutual regulation in couple therapy, Marion Solomon, Stan Tatkin ; foreword by Daniel J. Siegel

Love and war in intimate relationships : connection, disconnection, and mutual regulation in couple therapy, Marion Solomon, Stan Tatkin ; foreword by Daniel J. Siegel

Label
Love and war in intimate relationships : connection, disconnection, and mutual regulation in couple therapy
Title
Love and war in intimate relationships
Title remainder
connection, disconnection, and mutual regulation in couple therapy
Statement of responsibility
Marion Solomon, Stan Tatkin ; foreword by Daniel J. Siegel
Creator
Contributor
Subject
Language
eng
Summary
The last decade has seen extraordinary advances in our understanding of psychobiological processes that underlie emotional connection in human relationshipsùadvances that have major implications for the clinical treatment of couples. Here, noted clinicians Marion Solomon and Stan Tatkin offer a paradigm-changing psychobiological approach to couple therapy, which brings a new lens to the relational issues that create problems between intimate partners, offers new ways to effect change, and promises new possibilities for transformation. Drawing from cutting-edge neurobiological and attachment research and examining the ways the brain and mind affect the dynamics of attachment, the authors explore the context of a couple's attachment history, explaining how interactions with our early caregivers can be recreated in adult primary attachment relationships. Establishing their shared vision of intimate relationships as a locus of safety and security, they explain how key moments of emotional disconnection can spark negative cycles that take over partners' behavior and communication, and, without intervention, destroy a relationship. This is where the psychobiological approach conies in. Operating on the premise that couples become stuck in mutually-reinforcing patterns of behavior that limit their ability to communicate, and framing these patterns within each partner's unique attachment history, the authors use detailed, poignant case examples to demonstrate assessment, intervention, and regulation techniques that deescalate arousal and promote connection and understanding, including an interview protocol, reenactments, and movement exercises. They also offer practical and compassionate tips for clinicians on self-care, and dealing with things that come up in sessions that may trigger a therapist's own fraught attachment history. The neurobiologically-grounded and sensitive approach set forth by Solomon and Tatkin in this book is sure to transform the way clinicians understand and treat couples in therapy. --Book Jacket
Member of
Cataloging source
DLC
http://library.link/vocab/creatorName
Solomon, Marion Fried
Index
index present
LC call number
BF575.I5
LC item number
S65 2011
Literary form
non fiction
Nature of contents
bibliography
NLM call number
  • 2011 F-684
  • WM 430.5.M3
  • WM 430.5.M3
NLM item number
S689 2011
http://library.link/vocab/relatedWorkOrContributorName
Tatkin, Stan
Series statement
The Norton series on interpersonal neurobiology
http://library.link/vocab/subjectName
  • Intimacy (Psychology)
  • Interpersonal relations
  • Marriage
  • Couples Therapy
  • Interpersonal Relations
  • Marriage
  • Interpersonal relations
  • Intimacy (Psychology)
  • Marriage
  • Zweierbeziehung
  • Konflikt
  • Intimsphäre
  • Paartherapie
  • Psychologie
Label
Love and war in intimate relationships : connection, disconnection, and mutual regulation in couple therapy, Marion Solomon, Stan Tatkin ; foreword by Daniel J. Siegel
Instantiates
Publication
Note
"A Norton professional book"
Bibliography note
Includes bibliographical references and index
Carrier category
volume
Carrier category code
  • nc
Carrier MARC source
rdacarrier
Content category
text
Content type code
  • txt
Content type MARC source
rdacontent
Contents
The partnership vision -- Connection and disconnection -- How love turns to war -- The psychobiological imperative -- The psychobiological approach -- Treating the collective -- The partner attachment inventory -- The importance of movement -- The theoretical universe -- Attachment -- Arousal regulation -- Dysregulation -- The theory in practice -- Mark and melody -- David and margaret -- Cyrus and farah -- A neurobiological vocabulary -- Brain -- Memory systems -- Social/emotional skills and deficits -- Nervous system -- Neuroendocrine system
Dimensions
25 cm.
Edition
1st ed.
Extent
xxii, 264 pages
Isbn
9780393705751
Isbn Type
(hardcover)
Lccn
2010037721
Media category
unmediated
Media MARC source
rdamedia
Media type code
  • n
System control number
  • (OCoLC)662155043
  • (OCoLC)ocn662155043
Label
Love and war in intimate relationships : connection, disconnection, and mutual regulation in couple therapy, Marion Solomon, Stan Tatkin ; foreword by Daniel J. Siegel
Publication
Note
"A Norton professional book"
Bibliography note
Includes bibliographical references and index
Carrier category
volume
Carrier category code
  • nc
Carrier MARC source
rdacarrier
Content category
text
Content type code
  • txt
Content type MARC source
rdacontent
Contents
The partnership vision -- Connection and disconnection -- How love turns to war -- The psychobiological imperative -- The psychobiological approach -- Treating the collective -- The partner attachment inventory -- The importance of movement -- The theoretical universe -- Attachment -- Arousal regulation -- Dysregulation -- The theory in practice -- Mark and melody -- David and margaret -- Cyrus and farah -- A neurobiological vocabulary -- Brain -- Memory systems -- Social/emotional skills and deficits -- Nervous system -- Neuroendocrine system
Dimensions
25 cm.
Edition
1st ed.
Extent
xxii, 264 pages
Isbn
9780393705751
Isbn Type
(hardcover)
Lccn
2010037721
Media category
unmediated
Media MARC source
rdamedia
Media type code
  • n
System control number
  • (OCoLC)662155043
  • (OCoLC)ocn662155043

Library Locations

  • African Studies LibraryBorrow it
    771 Commonwealth Avenue, 6th Floor, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.350723 -71.108227
  • Alumni Medical LibraryBorrow it
    72 East Concord Street, Boston, MA, 02118, US
    42.336388 -71.072393
  • Astronomy LibraryBorrow it
    725 Commonwealth Avenue, 6th Floor, Boston, MA, 02445, US
    42.350259 -71.105717
  • Fineman and Pappas Law LibrariesBorrow it
    765 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.350979 -71.107023
  • Frederick S. Pardee Management LibraryBorrow it
    595 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.349626 -71.099547
  • Howard Gotlieb Archival Research CenterBorrow it
    771 Commonwealth Avenue, 5th Floor, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.350723 -71.108227
  • Mugar Memorial LibraryBorrow it
    771 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.350723 -71.108227
  • Music LibraryBorrow it
    771 Commonwealth Avenue, 2nd Floor, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.350723 -71.108227
  • Pikering Educational Resources LibraryBorrow it
    2 Silber Way, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.349804 -71.101425
  • School of Theology LibraryBorrow it
    745 Commonwealth Avenue, 2nd Floor, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.350494 -71.107235
  • Science & Engineering LibraryBorrow it
    38 Cummington Mall, Boston, MA, 02215, US
    42.348472 -71.102257
  • Stone Science LibraryBorrow it
    675 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston, MA, 02445, US
    42.350103 -71.103784
Processing Feedback ...